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2023.06.04 20:12 No_Celery_4846 My son will no longer speak to me and is instead believing the lies put into his head by his dad and girlfriend
I'm sorry in advance for the long post - I'll put a TL;DR at the end. It's years of built up frustrations and sadness that I just need to get out. I had my son, we'll call him Ty, at a yound age (19), and raised him as a single mom up until he was 16, when my now husband and I started living together. His dad and I were never seriously together. Ty's now 22 and won't speak to me anymore, and my heart breaks daily.
Ty was diagnosed with a high-functioning form of autism at 4 years old. From that point on, I brought him to occupational therapy every week that I was allowed (more on that in a bit) until he was 12 and graduated out of it. I went to his IEP at school every year from kindergarten through senior year of high school. I met and talked with his teachers and resource room leads consistently throughout the school years. I took him to play therapies to help him learn to socialize. I took him to regular couselining appointments. I picked him up from school on days when he'd have meltdowns. I say none of this to brag about my parenting - I was very far from perfect in many ways. But in all of this, his dad, we'll call him Richard, was doing nothing but putting road blocks up for me to get around.
Richard went to zero of Ty's IEPs. He went to 1 parent teacher conference in elementary school in which he told the teachers that they didn't know what they were doing, that Ty didn't need any extra help in school, and that Ty was not on the spectrum. He cancelled all of Ty's OT appointments. I had to pay thousands of dollars in court and attorney fees just to be able to get Ty back into his therapies from school and outside resources in order to ensure that he could succeed as his best self in a neurotypical world. I was far from wealthy, but I was very lucky to have an attorney who really fought hard for Ty while working with me to not put me into bankruptcy fighting this. Richard lied to the courts consistently in order to not have to pay me child support, even though he only paid me, at the highest, $300 a month. I never went after him to help me pay for the therapies (as he was court ordered to pay half of) because, with everyting else I was fighting for, it was a fight I just didn't have the energy for.
Ty still went to see his dad every other weekend. He hated it there. When Ty was a little older, Richard would literally save up housework for Ty to do when he was there on his weekends. A sink overflowing with dirty dishes for Ty to do, an overgrown lawn for Ty to mow, a messy room he shared with his brother who was 9 years younger than him that he'd have to clean. Babysitting said brother while Richard went out with his wife. One day, when Richard decided that he didn't want to pick up Ty from my house, he told Ty that he needed to walk to where Richard was coaching his other son in soccer (about 5 miles away). Ty was 16 and didn't have a license yet. I was at work and was not about to leave just because Richard was having a temper tantrum about picking up his son. Ty never went to see his dad after that, until about a year ago.
Ty started dating a girl about 2 years ago. I was so excited for him! Until about a year into that relationship. His girlfriend decided that, since Ty was on the spectrum, he needed help with absolutely everything. I had worked for YEARS to make sure that Ty could do everything independently. He was able to keep a schedule, work a regular part time job and supplement that with driving for DoorDash. We went over finances, how much it would cost to live on his own (his goal in the next few years). He worked his ass off, and he loved his job! He was able to get enough hours to quit DoorDash. He was named Employee of the Month after being at his job for only a couple of months. I was so proud of him and everything he was accomplishing!
Then his girlfriend got it into his head that the people at his job were bullying him and making him work too hard. None of this had ever been an issue before as he had loved what he was doing. Then she started telling him that because of his autism, he needed help in everything that he did. He was all of a sudden unable to clean his room on his own. He was unable to clean his car on his own. He was unable to look for a new job on his own. He was unable to get an oil change for his car on his own. When I challenged her on this, she said that I just didn't understand how his brain worked. I continued to try to push him to be his best, but he kept drifting further and further away. Then he started seeing his dad again.
When Ty complained to Richard about me, Richard told Ty how difficult I had made his (Richard's) life all those years. He told Ty that all I wanted was his money. He told Ty that I tried to keep him from his dad. In all of those years of Richard giving me hell, I never took that to Ty. I never told Ty what a POS his dad was. I just waited for him to figure it out. And he did. But now his girlfriend and his dad are putting it in his head what a terrible person I have been to him.
Ty moved out of my house last fall. He will not speak to me anymore. He has said that he was going to block my phone number. I don't know if he has or not, but I will still text him periodically to let him know that I still love him. But I don't hear back. I don't know if I ever will. He's now surrounded by people that put it in his head how terrible I am. I don't know how to come back from that. I don't know how to reach him anymore. I refuse to sink to the level of talking shit to him about the people he's surrounding himself with now. The only thing that I WILL continue to put into his head (if he'll speak to me again), is that what they are saying is wrong. That he is capable of so much more than what they are giving him credit for. My biggest hope is that he will eventually start up a relationship again with my parents (they were always very close) who can make sure to continue to put into his head how much I love him.
TL;DR - After raising my son alone for his whole life without help from his father, he has reconnected with his dad and believes the lies being told to him by his father about how terrible of a person I was and am. He has now moved out of my house and will no longer talk to me.
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Ty was diagnosed with a high-functioning form of autism at 4 years old. From that point on, I brought him to occupational therapy every week that I was allowed (more on that in a bit) until he was 12 and graduated out of it. I went to his IEP at school every year from kindergarten through senior year of high school. I met and talked with his teachers and resource room leads consistently throughout the school years. I took him to play therapies to help him learn to socialize. I took him to regular couselining appointments. I picked him up from school on days when he'd have meltdowns. I say none of this to brag about my parenting - I was very far from perfect in many ways. But in all of this, his dad, we'll call him Richard, was doing nothing but putting road blocks up for me to get around.
Richard went to zero of Ty's IEPs. He went to 1 parent teacher conference in elementary school in which he told the teachers that they didn't know what they were doing, that Ty didn't need any extra help in school, and that Ty was not on the spectrum. He cancelled all of Ty's OT appointments. I had to pay thousands of dollars in court and attorney fees just to be able to get Ty back into his therapies from school and outside resources in order to ensure that he could succeed as his best self in a neurotypical world. I was far from wealthy, but I was very lucky to have an attorney who really fought hard for Ty while working with me to not put me into bankruptcy fighting this. Richard lied to the courts consistently in order to not have to pay me child support, even though he only paid me, at the highest, $300 a month. I never went after him to help me pay for the therapies (as he was court ordered to pay half of) because, with everyting else I was fighting for, it was a fight I just didn't have the energy for.
Ty still went to see his dad every other weekend. He hated it there. When Ty was a little older, Richard would literally save up housework for Ty to do when he was there on his weekends. A sink overflowing with dirty dishes for Ty to do, an overgrown lawn for Ty to mow, a messy room he shared with his brother who was 9 years younger than him that he'd have to clean. Babysitting said brother while Richard went out with his wife. One day, when Richard decided that he didn't want to pick up Ty from my house, he told Ty that he needed to walk to where Richard was coaching his other son in soccer (about 5 miles away). Ty was 16 and didn't have a license yet. I was at work and was not about to leave just because Richard was having a temper tantrum about picking up his son. Ty never went to see his dad after that, until about a year ago.
Ty started dating a girl about 2 years ago. I was so excited for him! Until about a year into that relationship. His girlfriend decided that, since Ty was on the spectrum, he needed help with absolutely everything. I had worked for YEARS to make sure that Ty could do everything independently. He was able to keep a schedule, work a regular part time job and supplement that with driving for DoorDash. We went over finances, how much it would cost to live on his own (his goal in the next few years). He worked his ass off, and he loved his job! He was able to get enough hours to quit DoorDash. He was named Employee of the Month after being at his job for only a couple of months. I was so proud of him and everything he was accomplishing!
Then his girlfriend got it into his head that the people at his job were bullying him and making him work too hard. None of this had ever been an issue before as he had loved what he was doing. Then she started telling him that because of his autism, he needed help in everything that he did. He was all of a sudden unable to clean his room on his own. He was unable to clean his car on his own. He was unable to look for a new job on his own. He was unable to get an oil change for his car on his own. When I challenged her on this, she said that I just didn't understand how his brain worked. I continued to try to push him to be his best, but he kept drifting further and further away. Then he started seeing his dad again.
When Ty complained to Richard about me, Richard told Ty how difficult I had made his (Richard's) life all those years. He told Ty that all I wanted was his money. He told Ty that I tried to keep him from his dad. In all of those years of Richard giving me hell, I never took that to Ty. I never told Ty what a POS his dad was. I just waited for him to figure it out. And he did. But now his girlfriend and his dad are putting it in his head what a terrible person I have been to him.
Ty moved out of my house last fall. He will not speak to me anymore. He has said that he was going to block my phone number. I don't know if he has or not, but I will still text him periodically to let him know that I still love him. But I don't hear back. I don't know if I ever will. He's now surrounded by people that put it in his head how terrible I am. I don't know how to come back from that. I don't know how to reach him anymore. I refuse to sink to the level of talking shit to him about the people he's surrounding himself with now. The only thing that I WILL continue to put into his head (if he'll speak to me again), is that what they are saying is wrong. That he is capable of so much more than what they are giving him credit for. My biggest hope is that he will eventually start up a relationship again with my parents (they were always very close) who can make sure to continue to put into his head how much I love him.
TL;DR - After raising my son alone for his whole life without help from his father, he has reconnected with his dad and believes the lies being told to him by his father about how terrible of a person I was and am. He has now moved out of my house and will no longer talk to me.
2023.06.04 20:12 Neither-Extension306 what am I doing wrong. need help w fat loss.
(posted in loseit as well) I’m a 23F, 5’5 & 170 lbs, my goal weight is 135 lbs. I eat 1300-1500 cals/day with min 100 g of that coming from protein. I do cardio & 2-3 strength training exercises at the gym 3x/week & try to hit at least 10,000 steps on days I don’t go to the gym. But usually there’s one day a week where I feel too tired to do much more than chores, errands, watch TV.
I’ve been following this for 3 months now (I think my starting weight was ~180) but I’m afraid to weigh myself bc I don’t see any change in my appearance & I think it would make me lose all motivation to weigh myself & see that I haven’t made much progress. It makes me so insecure that I still have so much fat on my body bc it really makes me look so different from other women my age & where I live being >130 lbs as a woman is just not accepted.
Should I stay with what I’m doing? Cut more calories? Focus on more cardio or more strength training? Looking for any advice on how to decrease fat & hit my goal weight, thanks.
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I’ve been following this for 3 months now (I think my starting weight was ~180) but I’m afraid to weigh myself bc I don’t see any change in my appearance & I think it would make me lose all motivation to weigh myself & see that I haven’t made much progress. It makes me so insecure that I still have so much fat on my body bc it really makes me look so different from other women my age & where I live being >130 lbs as a woman is just not accepted.
Should I stay with what I’m doing? Cut more calories? Focus on more cardio or more strength training? Looking for any advice on how to decrease fat & hit my goal weight, thanks.
2023.06.04 20:12 Correct-Basil-8397 Not sure if this is the place to ask. I need help diagnosing a problem
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2023.06.04 20:12 TrueShpitzer22 How to change references ,idle,in ,body in blender ?
Hi i am using steam blender and i also have blender source tool but i wanna change a Gmod model shape but i don't know coding and when i change shape and save or export nothing happen so any idea how one of the list i said can be changed ?
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2023.06.04 20:11 entity-amorphous Too deep to see a way out -- To those who have recovered or are actively recovering, please help.
I'm 27M and I have been eating disordered for as long as I can remember. It has taken many forms, varying in severity and intensity -- starting as a kid, when I would hoard food in my bed at night, to jumping down the bulimia rabbit hole at 16, to compulsively over-exercising and fastidiously watching what I consumed, and now, to fasting bulimia.
I am diagnosed major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, hypochondria, and borderline personality disorder. I'm deeply human, and mostly a wreck.
While I've been able to function in the past, I lost my job in January, mostly due to my steadily decreasing ability to function... and have ceased to function since. I have applied for work, interviewed multiple times, but I haven't been hired. Jobless, aimless, and stuck in an endlessly repeating loop. I live alone with my dog, I have very few friends and spend most days in isolation.
I have been in therapy for 3 years, DBT therapy for a little over a year, and have come to understand and address some of the roots at the heart of this continued struggle. I am sober, from alcohol for 2.5 years, from cannabis for 3 months. I have a daily mindfulness practice, I enjoy movement in a healthy, non-compulsive way, and I get outside for a few hours a day with my dog. I am starting Ketamine therapy in a few weeks, and will be starting EMDR and IFS soon afterwards to untangle and rewire things.
So, things are looking up. I think I can pull out of this, and I'm working on it every day. But I don't know how to change how I eat, which is why I come to you all for any advice you're willing to give.
I genuinely don't know how to eat anymore. I feel physically sick every time I eat now, whether it's nutritious or junk -- and when I get on a good streak of eating (consistent, no binging, no fasting, decent food choices), I feel even worse. I understand that food addiction is a real thing, just as real and debilitating as any drug addiction. But I can't kick it cold turkey like I did with weed and booze -- and no matter how hard I try, how much I meditate or breathe or distract, I come running back to the warm blanket of a binge.
So, for those that are in recovery, what the hell do I do? What have you learned from your experiences that you can share to help me, and others like me?
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I am diagnosed major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, hypochondria, and borderline personality disorder. I'm deeply human, and mostly a wreck.
While I've been able to function in the past, I lost my job in January, mostly due to my steadily decreasing ability to function... and have ceased to function since. I have applied for work, interviewed multiple times, but I haven't been hired. Jobless, aimless, and stuck in an endlessly repeating loop. I live alone with my dog, I have very few friends and spend most days in isolation.
I have been in therapy for 3 years, DBT therapy for a little over a year, and have come to understand and address some of the roots at the heart of this continued struggle. I am sober, from alcohol for 2.5 years, from cannabis for 3 months. I have a daily mindfulness practice, I enjoy movement in a healthy, non-compulsive way, and I get outside for a few hours a day with my dog. I am starting Ketamine therapy in a few weeks, and will be starting EMDR and IFS soon afterwards to untangle and rewire things.
So, things are looking up. I think I can pull out of this, and I'm working on it every day. But I don't know how to change how I eat, which is why I come to you all for any advice you're willing to give.
I genuinely don't know how to eat anymore. I feel physically sick every time I eat now, whether it's nutritious or junk -- and when I get on a good streak of eating (consistent, no binging, no fasting, decent food choices), I feel even worse. I understand that food addiction is a real thing, just as real and debilitating as any drug addiction. But I can't kick it cold turkey like I did with weed and booze -- and no matter how hard I try, how much I meditate or breathe or distract, I come running back to the warm blanket of a binge.
So, for those that are in recovery, what the hell do I do? What have you learned from your experiences that you can share to help me, and others like me?
2023.06.04 20:10 ThrowRA3945 I (24f) feel trapped by a friend (26m) and his feelings about a chance for something with me that I don't even want.
So I want to preface this with, I am asexual, I don't have sexual attractions and I rarely get romantic attraction.
Now, I know a guy, who is in a relationship with another girl. We've been somewhat friends for about three years with no changes in dynamic, but last year after a break up with a toxic boyfriend last year I got closer to him as he was the only person there for me. I love him, I really do, but as a friend. He's a genuine sweetheart outside of this one problem. He told me he started to have feelings for me but I had gotten another boyfriend. He then got upset at me for doing this because he claimed that he was considering to leave his girlfriend for me. Then after my relationship with that new guy fell apart he once again became invested in me. Being there for me, helping me, talking to me as I cried, never once rubbing it in that it fell apart, like others have.
Now onto the problem, I have created boundaries with him many times in regards to certain ways of talking and they have been broken. Although he has finally stopped breaking them. Now, however he has begun getting jealous of my friends, or attractive guys that I know or even just celebrities. When I have told him I didn't love him in that way, he said he'd do the unthinkable if he didn't have me. I told him that I'd still be there for him if he chooses to stay in his currently very good relationship and be open with her about his feelings. However he refuses get over me. I'm about to move out of the country and he's taken that as me giving him time to 'figure out what he wants' he's told me he can't do long distance relationships but he's sure we can figure it out. I don't want to figure it out. I don't want to be with him. I want him to choose his girlfriend. I told him that I feel trapped because he's jealous of every guy I interact with and I'm not even involved with him in any way outside of friendship. I told him I don't want to be trapped by the "possibility" that he picks me when I don't even want him to think about picking me. I don't know what else I can do or how I can tell him without him being severely hurt or hurting himself.
Literally this happens EXTREMELY rarely and aside from this we have an incredible bond and friendship and he is genuinely the sweetest to me about EVERYTHING. Even shutting certain advances down himself if he knows I'm uninterested and I don't specifically say I am. This occasional issue has me concerned that there's a bigger issue and I don't want to hurt him too awfully in case he's sensitive.
TLDR: a friend of mine for a few years has a girlfriend yet has developed a crush on me. I'm moving away and he's jealous all the time, and gets irrationally upset at even the mention of another boy or me not wanting to be with him. I feel trapped from any chances at relationships in the future by a "possible relationship" that I don't even want. That he couldn't give even if I did want it, because he wouldn't leave his girlfriend.
Can someone please help me deal with this? I can't keep trying to dance around it and my approach I'm taking clearly isn't working. I'm autistic and I'm wondering if I'm coming off cruel or harsh, but I don't know how else to approach the subject.
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Now, I know a guy, who is in a relationship with another girl. We've been somewhat friends for about three years with no changes in dynamic, but last year after a break up with a toxic boyfriend last year I got closer to him as he was the only person there for me. I love him, I really do, but as a friend. He's a genuine sweetheart outside of this one problem. He told me he started to have feelings for me but I had gotten another boyfriend. He then got upset at me for doing this because he claimed that he was considering to leave his girlfriend for me. Then after my relationship with that new guy fell apart he once again became invested in me. Being there for me, helping me, talking to me as I cried, never once rubbing it in that it fell apart, like others have.
Now onto the problem, I have created boundaries with him many times in regards to certain ways of talking and they have been broken. Although he has finally stopped breaking them. Now, however he has begun getting jealous of my friends, or attractive guys that I know or even just celebrities. When I have told him I didn't love him in that way, he said he'd do the unthinkable if he didn't have me. I told him that I'd still be there for him if he chooses to stay in his currently very good relationship and be open with her about his feelings. However he refuses get over me. I'm about to move out of the country and he's taken that as me giving him time to 'figure out what he wants' he's told me he can't do long distance relationships but he's sure we can figure it out. I don't want to figure it out. I don't want to be with him. I want him to choose his girlfriend. I told him that I feel trapped because he's jealous of every guy I interact with and I'm not even involved with him in any way outside of friendship. I told him I don't want to be trapped by the "possibility" that he picks me when I don't even want him to think about picking me. I don't know what else I can do or how I can tell him without him being severely hurt or hurting himself.
Literally this happens EXTREMELY rarely and aside from this we have an incredible bond and friendship and he is genuinely the sweetest to me about EVERYTHING. Even shutting certain advances down himself if he knows I'm uninterested and I don't specifically say I am. This occasional issue has me concerned that there's a bigger issue and I don't want to hurt him too awfully in case he's sensitive.
TLDR: a friend of mine for a few years has a girlfriend yet has developed a crush on me. I'm moving away and he's jealous all the time, and gets irrationally upset at even the mention of another boy or me not wanting to be with him. I feel trapped from any chances at relationships in the future by a "possible relationship" that I don't even want. That he couldn't give even if I did want it, because he wouldn't leave his girlfriend.
Can someone please help me deal with this? I can't keep trying to dance around it and my approach I'm taking clearly isn't working. I'm autistic and I'm wondering if I'm coming off cruel or harsh, but I don't know how else to approach the subject.
2023.06.04 20:10 Akainordmannen "Maybe later" I guess?
We were both in love with each other and we were going to get in a relationship, we spent time together Wednesday and we were so close it was great, I told her I love her face to face etc. But the day after she changed her mind, like overnight.. and yesterday she sent me this:
"Hi ! It's true I gave you no answer and besides I would like to come back to what I said on Tuesday* of last week, I don't deny the fact that at that time I had this feeling of wanting to form a couple with you but as I go along I no longer feel this desire to be honest and I apologize for changing my mind on this at the last moment and I have to explain to you why: first of all there is the approach of the summer holidays in 1 week and it must be admitted that with the distance we would not have changed our relationship if we would have been as a couple, we would have only talked by text message from time to time and during the 2 months it's a long wait until the start of the school year before seeing each other so starting something just before is for me not possible and fragile, noting than we know each other a little better but not to the point of being comfortable each on our side. It is for this reason that I prefer not to give us a chance, and I am aware of having let you hope for something between us and I am sorry to reconsider my decision."
*when she sent a message telling me she's ready to be with me
Well I was devastated (and I'm still). I sent her this:
"It kind of took me by surprise, I don't know what to think. It was the 1st time that I lived that, I was too happy and I had a lot of hope, I had the impression that we were "almost a couple" and that everything was finally going to change for me, that I was going to be able to go on something brand new with a girl that I find perfect. I understand that this is not your case, but this budding relationship really represented a lot for me. I was hoping this would be a whole new chapter, I was hoping that everything would change and I wouldn't be alone, I was hoping that we would see each other this summer too, that I could be close to someone I found too cute lol, just living new things, it was really a whole new world that was taking shape for me, and it was a world that made me dream, and when I was with you, the more I learned to know, the more I looked you in the eyes, the more I found you awesome and I wanted to hug you honestly, without suspecting for 1 second that it was the opposite on your side.. and last Wednesday, when I asked you if you still thought we had our chances and you said yes, this world was really in front of me, I was about to turn the page, I had a lot of hope for the future and I said to myself "that's it, I found my type of girl in person" lol, I was almost in a relationship, I believed in my chances, until I saw this world collapsing in front of my eyes, overnight, without my being able to do anything and without my understanding what is happening.. it was sudden, unexpected, and this last week of class, my birthday, this summer.. immediately seemed less exciting. This world closed in front of me at the last moment. All this hope for something new has gone up in smoke, it was the worst false hope, and I find myself, as always, alone, overnight. The emotional damage lol.. it's as if life reminded me "You're alone. You thought it was going to change? YOU SUCH A FOOL AHAH". It hurts. The worst is not understanding when, how, why... not being able to do anything. For me, we were close on Wednesday, and the next day bam, nothing. I understand that if we couldn't see each other this summer it would have been complicated... but I was hoping that we could. I really don't understand why everything closed so quickly. But whatever the reason. We can not do anything about it. If I'm the problem, that in the end when we know each other a little better, I don't correspond to you or that there's someone else and you no longer feel anything for me, well, we can't help it and I respect your decision in any case. I wouldn't have wanted to drag you down with me anyway... On the other hand, if the problem is you, I can assure you that you are wrong. You were talking to me about a lack of self-esteem, and I understand, it's the same, but that doesn't make you someone useless or good for nothing or jsp. But it can make you not ready to be with someone, I understand. And there we can do something about it. But either way, I have no choice but to appreciate your honesty and give you the space you need. I'm sorry for not being the right one for you. I'll leave you alone. If you want to talk to me I'm always here, always. Take care of yourself, see you..."
And she replied by:
"I completely understand your feelings (for having experienced it once also on my side..) and I'm extremely sorry about it I said that I didn't want to do the same thing I didn't want to hurt anyone because in itself I want to be someone good deep down but the proof that this is not the case, but know that everything I said to you before whether by message or face it was words sincere i really thought it i don't want you to think that i made fun of you, you know after i sent you this msg i didn't feel good either because i hesitated before sending it to you , I had this impression of doing something stupid because you had done nothing to deserve this, you have nothing to reproach yourself for, you have no fault that would explain what I did, the problem does not come you because you have everything to please seriously and you corresponded to me but jsp how to explain to you the fact that I no longer felt ready to be with you all of a sudden (probably prcq I think too much about what there is a later in life) maybe the fear of being committed or the fear that it won't last long, the possibility that you will betray my trust, all these things I preferred to run away from and protect myself from these risks (it's cowardly to run away from the difficulty I know...) Especially with the 2 months separated by being in a relationship where I would have missed you and I would not have supported that, that's why I said " not possible" in this sense and I would not have had peace of mind so I preferred to avoid suffering, ahh but no there's no one else haha I'm not like that! You take mm my defense while I hurt you (Are you insane? Lol) (or it's just a proof of wisdom) I appreciate, but you should blame me instead lol. Don't be sorry for not being the "right one" for me, who knows? Maybe I'm wrong and I'll regret it later. Also, at the end of the mini pad that I sent you yesterday, I wanted to ask you if we could remain friends but I didn't do it because it risked being the straw that would overflow the vase and I was afraid that you wouldn't, in truth I don't like when a relationship ends badly that's why I would like us to talk to each other again, friendly this time, to hear from each other if you don't mind (I don't want to lose you, someone who likes honey goat cheese pizza, it's sacred lol ;) ) Well here's my little novel, see you and take care of yourself too!"
See she's adorable, 100% my type of girl lol. But it's definitely a lack of self confidence. I don't really know what to tell her, but I want her to know that NO she's not a bad person, I'm sure she wouldn't have hurt me, no I don't blame her,, and I understand cause I also look for a long-term relationship that lasts and I admit we rushed things a little. Also I accept being her friend, we have time if we want to be a couple. I admit I'm a bit disappointed because this new chapter still collapsed right in front of my eyes and I'll have to wait again... I just hope we start from 0 and maybe later we'll be together?
I really love her
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"Hi ! It's true I gave you no answer and besides I would like to come back to what I said on Tuesday* of last week, I don't deny the fact that at that time I had this feeling of wanting to form a couple with you but as I go along I no longer feel this desire to be honest and I apologize for changing my mind on this at the last moment and I have to explain to you why: first of all there is the approach of the summer holidays in 1 week and it must be admitted that with the distance we would not have changed our relationship if we would have been as a couple, we would have only talked by text message from time to time and during the 2 months it's a long wait until the start of the school year before seeing each other so starting something just before is for me not possible and fragile, noting than we know each other a little better but not to the point of being comfortable each on our side. It is for this reason that I prefer not to give us a chance, and I am aware of having let you hope for something between us and I am sorry to reconsider my decision."
*when she sent a message telling me she's ready to be with me
Well I was devastated (and I'm still). I sent her this:
"It kind of took me by surprise, I don't know what to think. It was the 1st time that I lived that, I was too happy and I had a lot of hope, I had the impression that we were "almost a couple" and that everything was finally going to change for me, that I was going to be able to go on something brand new with a girl that I find perfect. I understand that this is not your case, but this budding relationship really represented a lot for me. I was hoping this would be a whole new chapter, I was hoping that everything would change and I wouldn't be alone, I was hoping that we would see each other this summer too, that I could be close to someone I found too cute lol, just living new things, it was really a whole new world that was taking shape for me, and it was a world that made me dream, and when I was with you, the more I learned to know, the more I looked you in the eyes, the more I found you awesome and I wanted to hug you honestly, without suspecting for 1 second that it was the opposite on your side.. and last Wednesday, when I asked you if you still thought we had our chances and you said yes, this world was really in front of me, I was about to turn the page, I had a lot of hope for the future and I said to myself "that's it, I found my type of girl in person" lol, I was almost in a relationship, I believed in my chances, until I saw this world collapsing in front of my eyes, overnight, without my being able to do anything and without my understanding what is happening.. it was sudden, unexpected, and this last week of class, my birthday, this summer.. immediately seemed less exciting. This world closed in front of me at the last moment. All this hope for something new has gone up in smoke, it was the worst false hope, and I find myself, as always, alone, overnight. The emotional damage lol.. it's as if life reminded me "You're alone. You thought it was going to change? YOU SUCH A FOOL AHAH". It hurts. The worst is not understanding when, how, why... not being able to do anything. For me, we were close on Wednesday, and the next day bam, nothing. I understand that if we couldn't see each other this summer it would have been complicated... but I was hoping that we could. I really don't understand why everything closed so quickly. But whatever the reason. We can not do anything about it. If I'm the problem, that in the end when we know each other a little better, I don't correspond to you or that there's someone else and you no longer feel anything for me, well, we can't help it and I respect your decision in any case. I wouldn't have wanted to drag you down with me anyway... On the other hand, if the problem is you, I can assure you that you are wrong. You were talking to me about a lack of self-esteem, and I understand, it's the same, but that doesn't make you someone useless or good for nothing or jsp. But it can make you not ready to be with someone, I understand. And there we can do something about it. But either way, I have no choice but to appreciate your honesty and give you the space you need. I'm sorry for not being the right one for you. I'll leave you alone. If you want to talk to me I'm always here, always. Take care of yourself, see you..."
And she replied by:
"I completely understand your feelings (for having experienced it once also on my side..) and I'm extremely sorry about it I said that I didn't want to do the same thing I didn't want to hurt anyone because in itself I want to be someone good deep down but the proof that this is not the case, but know that everything I said to you before whether by message or face it was words sincere i really thought it i don't want you to think that i made fun of you, you know after i sent you this msg i didn't feel good either because i hesitated before sending it to you , I had this impression of doing something stupid because you had done nothing to deserve this, you have nothing to reproach yourself for, you have no fault that would explain what I did, the problem does not come you because you have everything to please seriously and you corresponded to me but jsp how to explain to you the fact that I no longer felt ready to be with you all of a sudden (probably prcq I think too much about what there is a later in life) maybe the fear of being committed or the fear that it won't last long, the possibility that you will betray my trust, all these things I preferred to run away from and protect myself from these risks (it's cowardly to run away from the difficulty I know...) Especially with the 2 months separated by being in a relationship where I would have missed you and I would not have supported that, that's why I said " not possible" in this sense and I would not have had peace of mind so I preferred to avoid suffering, ahh but no there's no one else haha I'm not like that! You take mm my defense while I hurt you (Are you insane? Lol) (or it's just a proof of wisdom) I appreciate, but you should blame me instead lol. Don't be sorry for not being the "right one" for me, who knows? Maybe I'm wrong and I'll regret it later. Also, at the end of the mini pad that I sent you yesterday, I wanted to ask you if we could remain friends but I didn't do it because it risked being the straw that would overflow the vase and I was afraid that you wouldn't, in truth I don't like when a relationship ends badly that's why I would like us to talk to each other again, friendly this time, to hear from each other if you don't mind (I don't want to lose you, someone who likes honey goat cheese pizza, it's sacred lol ;) ) Well here's my little novel, see you and take care of yourself too!"
See she's adorable, 100% my type of girl lol. But it's definitely a lack of self confidence. I don't really know what to tell her, but I want her to know that NO she's not a bad person, I'm sure she wouldn't have hurt me, no I don't blame her,, and I understand cause I also look for a long-term relationship that lasts and I admit we rushed things a little. Also I accept being her friend, we have time if we want to be a couple. I admit I'm a bit disappointed because this new chapter still collapsed right in front of my eyes and I'll have to wait again... I just hope we start from 0 and maybe later we'll be together?
I really love her
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2023.06.04 20:10 Evergreenwitxh How do I tell him I want to break up because of him?
I (18 M) and my partner (18 M/F) (shes gender fluid) have been together for a couple of months now. I remember loving and having this huge crush on him thinking he was amazing and I still do love him and think he’s great but at the same time there are things about him that I’ve come to realise either just don’t make sense or has crossed lines that I’ve stated I was uncomfortable with.
I’m sorry if this doesn’t make much sense but I have a hard time wrapping my head around everything that’s happened.
So basically I told him that because of things that have happened in my past- (SA and grooming) I’ve been uncomfortable having sex or seeing the naked body and this was a thing he knew before we even got together and has acknowledged because he got changed in a separate room to me when I went over to his house, but he’s sent me his old nudes that at the time I didn’t really think much of but they automatically saved to my phone due to the app I talk to him through and now I can’t bear to look at my photos because if I see even a glimpse of them it makes me feel sick and disgusting so I haven’t been able to delete them. We were on the phone a few days ago and she kept mentioning to me that she hadn’t taken any good nudes as of late and that she’ll miss being in the house by herself because she wouldn’t be able to walk around without a top on (she’s got a female body) and she kept talking about it and it made me uncomfortable because of the mental image- and then she send me a picture of her without a top her top on and I felt very uncomfortable but felt I couldn’t say anything so she didn’t get upset. But I genuinely can’t look at a naked body regardless of if it’s just the top or bottom half. She knew but decided to do this anyway.
Another issue I’ve had is that I can’t be over peoples houses overnight because again it makes me uncomfortable because of past issues I’ve had prior to them. She knows this. But has complained to me about it so I went over twice to appease her but she then assumed that I was going to go over every Friday night and I told her no, she tried to tell me that her younger brother wanted to see me because she would tell him I was coming over without me knowing she even wanted me over in the first place. I cannot stress the amount of times I’ve told her being around places overnight stress me out and make me incredibly uncomfortable, she says in her words “I know and I get that BUT I just want to be around you and cuddle with you and sleep with you” and she complains that she goes out with people who live with their partners and says that she can’t do that stuff with me because I don’t want to go over.
The last thing I have a main issue with is the fact she doesn’t seem to know or care how I don’t like how people seem to stare at her chest or try and flirt with her when I’m not there knowing we are together and she’s told me that it only ever becomes an issue if it makes her uncomfortable. I told her that, that shouldn’t be the only issue there and the fact that people know we are together and think it’s okay to flirt with her and want to do sexual things with her isn’t okay and is incredibly desperate and pathetic and incredibly disrespectful and she told me I was expecting too much.
There was one guy we were friends with I’m going to call them L, I did so much shit for L because I thought he was truly a victim of abuse and neglect (abuse from partner and neglect from parents) turns out none of that was true and he was actually the abuser and he stated that he wanted to eat out my partner and when my partner learned of this and when I brought it up she IMMEDIATELY defended him and said “I’d get it if he was single” and all this other bs that I don’t remember right now.
I want to break up because there are so so many other issues that I have and now every single thing frustrates me the only reason I haven’t broke up with her is because I’m afraid she’ll say that she’s going to self harm because when we first got together or something she mentions that if I hadn’t gotten with her when I did that she would be in a dark place with SH and other horrible things.
I’m so so sorry for the long post lol but I’ve had like one person to talk to about this and I think I need some outside perspective any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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I’m sorry if this doesn’t make much sense but I have a hard time wrapping my head around everything that’s happened.
So basically I told him that because of things that have happened in my past- (SA and grooming) I’ve been uncomfortable having sex or seeing the naked body and this was a thing he knew before we even got together and has acknowledged because he got changed in a separate room to me when I went over to his house, but he’s sent me his old nudes that at the time I didn’t really think much of but they automatically saved to my phone due to the app I talk to him through and now I can’t bear to look at my photos because if I see even a glimpse of them it makes me feel sick and disgusting so I haven’t been able to delete them. We were on the phone a few days ago and she kept mentioning to me that she hadn’t taken any good nudes as of late and that she’ll miss being in the house by herself because she wouldn’t be able to walk around without a top on (she’s got a female body) and she kept talking about it and it made me uncomfortable because of the mental image- and then she send me a picture of her without a top her top on and I felt very uncomfortable but felt I couldn’t say anything so she didn’t get upset. But I genuinely can’t look at a naked body regardless of if it’s just the top or bottom half. She knew but decided to do this anyway.
Another issue I’ve had is that I can’t be over peoples houses overnight because again it makes me uncomfortable because of past issues I’ve had prior to them. She knows this. But has complained to me about it so I went over twice to appease her but she then assumed that I was going to go over every Friday night and I told her no, she tried to tell me that her younger brother wanted to see me because she would tell him I was coming over without me knowing she even wanted me over in the first place. I cannot stress the amount of times I’ve told her being around places overnight stress me out and make me incredibly uncomfortable, she says in her words “I know and I get that BUT I just want to be around you and cuddle with you and sleep with you” and she complains that she goes out with people who live with their partners and says that she can’t do that stuff with me because I don’t want to go over.
The last thing I have a main issue with is the fact she doesn’t seem to know or care how I don’t like how people seem to stare at her chest or try and flirt with her when I’m not there knowing we are together and she’s told me that it only ever becomes an issue if it makes her uncomfortable. I told her that, that shouldn’t be the only issue there and the fact that people know we are together and think it’s okay to flirt with her and want to do sexual things with her isn’t okay and is incredibly desperate and pathetic and incredibly disrespectful and she told me I was expecting too much.
There was one guy we were friends with I’m going to call them L, I did so much shit for L because I thought he was truly a victim of abuse and neglect (abuse from partner and neglect from parents) turns out none of that was true and he was actually the abuser and he stated that he wanted to eat out my partner and when my partner learned of this and when I brought it up she IMMEDIATELY defended him and said “I’d get it if he was single” and all this other bs that I don’t remember right now.
I want to break up because there are so so many other issues that I have and now every single thing frustrates me the only reason I haven’t broke up with her is because I’m afraid she’ll say that she’s going to self harm because when we first got together or something she mentions that if I hadn’t gotten with her when I did that she would be in a dark place with SH and other horrible things.
I’m so so sorry for the long post lol but I’ve had like one person to talk to about this and I think I need some outside perspective any advice would be greatly appreciated.
2023.06.04 20:10 matheusco Theory - Souls, Devils and War [Spoilers 1085]
TL;DR
- Gorosei are souls, not Shadows or Zoans, which are the same thing as the "Devil" in the Devil Fruits, and use robotic bodies.
- Ancient Kingdom lost because they didn't use Devil Fruits.
https://www.reddit.com/OnePiece/comments/13ykuho/1085_spoilers_chapter_1085_was_a_game_change
Souls
Some facts we know about souls:- They can have cousciousness/personality
- Brook searching for his body
- Brook leaves his body at will and keeps his personality
- Homies
- Incarnations
- They can be manipulated/affected
- Soru Soru no Mi
- Yomi Yomi no Mi
- They can be placed in objects
- Soru Soru no Mi
- They leave the 'container' if it's damaged enough
- Homies being damaged
- Humans dying
- They can be guided without the use of DFs.
- They can be stored in DFs
- They can be controlled/used
- Resisting against Souls Pocus
- Haki
- Diable Jambe
- Asura
- They can act independently from user being conscious
- Luffy staring at Kaido even knocked out
- Luffy using haoshoku without knowing it
- If it can be done by DFs, it can be done by technology.
- Just a guess, from what we saw until now.
Imu and Gorosei
I strongly believe that Imu and Gorosei are actually physical manifestation of souls, mostly because Sabo's speech wouldn't make sense if they were normal just normal/ugly Zoans:https://preview.redd.it/mo43rhkdd04b1.png?width=945&format=png&auto=webp&s=9d81f6943fec3e84f293c6c3455cabd0573bd50b
I think they are almost the same thing as the Kazenbo, but they are the actual thing, while Kazenbo was a representation of Kanjuro own soul mixed with hate and materialized by the power of Fude Fude no Mi.
What I believe to be Kanjuro soul representation
Very similar to Imu and Gorosei, and looks a lot like a distorted version of Kanjuro representation in the flashback.
It's like looking yourself in the mirror and drawing a stronger version of you, but with a lot of hate. Altough, it could be that they aren't 'soul' creatures and it's really just silhouette:
https://preview.redd.it/cuv0pucpw04b1.png?width=341&format=png&auto=webp&s=0e7a4295d316091f23d888258a8aa8449e3654e4
https://preview.redd.it/7r9opt7ep04b1.png?width=382&format=png&auto=webp&s=abf075a6efd026a8f37e497bc9457f293d1041ce
He also does for good people, which make me believe this is a way of him saying "I'm showing the true personality of this character".
Happiest soul ever. Also, pretty sure Kozuki are going to be confirmed D, just like Nefertari.
But I do believe they are actually souls, just like Kanjuro's. Why? Because they are at the top of the world, I don't believe they would be 'just' zoans, even if mythical. This would imply that anyone strong who trained enough could just kill them. Also, Sabo's speech.
The Immortality Surgery
Based on:- The ability "Personality Transplant Surgery" of the Ope Ope no Mi
- Kazenbo/Kanjuro
- Brook keeping his personality while in 'soul mode'
When Law change people personalitys, he is actually changing their souls. Why I believe that? Because:
- When in "Soul Mode" Brook is still himself.
- The 'homies' gain personalities just by receiving a soul.
Devil Fruits
Assuming we are on the right track, what about Devil Fruits? Well... the important things we know about them is:- They can affect traits/characteristics/parts of a person, like body, age, soul, shadow, etc.
- They reincarnate in fruits.
- They can be assimilated by cannibalism.
- They can be assimilated by an unknow method, used by Blackbeard.
- They can be replicated.
- They can be created from animals DNA.
- Zoans affect user behavior:
https://preview.redd.it/9lav20pi614b1.png?width=509&format=png&auto=webp&s=37c353c47c9e78a8b06bfe94e09527f81f35df80
- They possibly have a will on their own:
What we don't know:
- Why there's only one type of each.
- If artifical one reincarnate.
Anyway, based on the previous information, I think Devil Fruits are created by using someone's soul. Not in a cute way, but actually stopping them to ever be reborn in a normal way or "going to heaven", so that's might be what caused the void century war.
How? While Great Kingdom focused on developing humane tech, like devices to create food, to change clothes, and other things, WG took the 'easy' path and started to use souls to increase its power, be it themselves or using the Ancient Kingdom version of "MADS", similar to how CC work for Vegapunk but started to do his own inhumane stuff.
So the war might not be just 'AK vs 20 Kingdoms', but more like a civil war, with the 'baddies' winning with the help of the 20 kingdoms. While AK had to use weapons with 'DF powers', the enemy became the power themselves.
Devil Fruits Reincarnation
I really don't think fruits can manipulate destiny or move on their own, so their way to 'evade' WG, as theorized by the Gorosei, is to reincarnate somewhere harder for them to acquire it, which might explain why they don't simply gather all fruits from the world. That or some fruits were created using volunteers and go to the WG on purpose.Shandora guiding people to trees is important because they were allied with the Ancient Kingdom, so this might be a way to protect the souls from being used by the enemies.
The will of the fruit might also depend on their original form, so Human's Will > Dog's Will, which might influence on how long they can wander until entering a new host or how smart they are.
I believe they reincarnate in fruits because that's the most logical way to be reborn: by being consumed, assuming they can't just enter a person/animal because they already have a soul 'protecting' them. They act like a parasite, be it on purpose or not.
They may be able to go to a rock instead of a fruit, but no one is eating that and if no one destroys it, they would basically be trapped there forever. Fruits go bad, so if no one found them, they can just reincarnate in another one when it expires.
Eating is just a way to destroy the container, be it a fruit or a human (
Based on that, what I think Blackbeard does is basically stopping the soul from ever leaving the area around the host, that's why he needs the blanket, and uses Yami Yami no Mi to absorb it against the 'devil' will. Why he can absorb it is topic for another theory.
2023.06.04 20:10 Dramatic_Sample_7302 Step with short hair
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2023.06.04 20:10 iSkyVault Fantastic Cakes and Where to Find Them
In VH2 I loved cake vaults. They were so chaotic and fun. In VH3, I'm looking at cake vaults like that meme "Look how they massacred my boy."
The approach you have to take when doing cake vaults in VH3 is like this: by cake 15-20, if you haven't found a cake pedestal to exit by, you can't go any further or you will probably die. If you do find one, you can mark the room and go another 15-20 rooms. The reason why it's like this is because the cake pedestals only have a 10% chance (I think) to spawn somewhere randomly in a room. So even if it does spawn, you may never find it. I hate this.
I would like to see some changes to cake vaults. Firstly, I want the chaotic cake vaults back. Random stacking modifiers every time you find a cake is fun. Nothing compares to this experience, not even chaos catalysts. You don't have to remove the VH3 cake vault, simply add this alternative style next to it. The only difference between the two would be one cake vault has random stacking modifiers, and the other has stacking item rarity/quantity and mob health/damage.
Secondly, and this applies to both cake vaults, remove cake pedestals and replace them with Cakestones. They're Waystones that only work in a cake vault. They spawn at the exit and at every 10th/20th/30th/40th/etc. cake room. By using the power of cake, you're able to teleport to any room with a Cakestone in it once you found the cake.
Why is this a good idea? It allows you to go really deep in a cake vault because you have the certainty you can get out, which is good for people trying to see how far they can go for competitive reasons. It also takes the difficulty away from finding an exit, and puts it back on finding cakes and the ever growing pressure from the mobs. Which is how cake vaults should be.
It also allows you to tackle cake vaults in interesting ways. Like if you find an omega room early on, but you want to loot it later once you find more cakes to apply more modifiers. Furthermore, it doesn't punish groups of players, so now you can enjoy doing cake vaults with your friends and everyone can get out safely by teleporting back to the exit.
If the devs ever bring back the weekly time trial stuff, I forget the name of them, cake vaults could also have their own category. You have to do it solo, find a minimum of 50 cakes, and whoever finds the highest amount on the server gets a Champions Crate or whatever it was. Could be fun.
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The approach you have to take when doing cake vaults in VH3 is like this: by cake 15-20, if you haven't found a cake pedestal to exit by, you can't go any further or you will probably die. If you do find one, you can mark the room and go another 15-20 rooms. The reason why it's like this is because the cake pedestals only have a 10% chance (I think) to spawn somewhere randomly in a room. So even if it does spawn, you may never find it. I hate this.
I would like to see some changes to cake vaults. Firstly, I want the chaotic cake vaults back. Random stacking modifiers every time you find a cake is fun. Nothing compares to this experience, not even chaos catalysts. You don't have to remove the VH3 cake vault, simply add this alternative style next to it. The only difference between the two would be one cake vault has random stacking modifiers, and the other has stacking item rarity/quantity and mob health/damage.
Secondly, and this applies to both cake vaults, remove cake pedestals and replace them with Cakestones. They're Waystones that only work in a cake vault. They spawn at the exit and at every 10th/20th/30th/40th/etc. cake room. By using the power of cake, you're able to teleport to any room with a Cakestone in it once you found the cake.
Why is this a good idea? It allows you to go really deep in a cake vault because you have the certainty you can get out, which is good for people trying to see how far they can go for competitive reasons. It also takes the difficulty away from finding an exit, and puts it back on finding cakes and the ever growing pressure from the mobs. Which is how cake vaults should be.
It also allows you to tackle cake vaults in interesting ways. Like if you find an omega room early on, but you want to loot it later once you find more cakes to apply more modifiers. Furthermore, it doesn't punish groups of players, so now you can enjoy doing cake vaults with your friends and everyone can get out safely by teleporting back to the exit.
If the devs ever bring back the weekly time trial stuff, I forget the name of them, cake vaults could also have their own category. You have to do it solo, find a minimum of 50 cakes, and whoever finds the highest amount on the server gets a Champions Crate or whatever it was. Could be fun.
2023.06.04 20:09 Brilliant-Fall1687 How Do I Reattach This? Help!/ASAP?
I was using the shower, and when I knocked against the shower head a bit too hard, the shower head came loose, but not fully. The bulb was just left spewing water. I tried to reattach it, but I had some difficulty doing so.
The bulb is preventing me from attaching it? How do I fix this?
Edit - I managed to reattach it. However, there is a small black ring that I don't know the placement of. I kept it aside. It's not the large black ring inside the valve sleeve. It's smaller than an elastic hair band but about as thick as the large black ring.
Does anyone know where I attach the small black elastic?
This is the closest image I could find to help me reattach it. Link: https://www.google.ca/search?sxsrf=APwXEdchd_vtKC3Y-DT7I-CAvS00YLAS_g:1685901904623&q=Bulb+shower+head+parts&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjRv5qBmqr_AhXm
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The bulb is preventing me from attaching it? How do I fix this?
Edit - I managed to reattach it. However, there is a small black ring that I don't know the placement of. I kept it aside. It's not the large black ring inside the valve sleeve. It's smaller than an elastic hair band but about as thick as the large black ring.
Does anyone know where I attach the small black elastic?
This is the closest image I could find to help me reattach it. Link: https://www.google.ca/search?sxsrf=APwXEdchd_vtKC3Y-DT7I-CAvS00YLAS_g:1685901904623&q=Bulb+shower+head+parts&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjRv5qBmqr_AhXm
2023.06.04 20:09 Anonymous-4567 Two weeks progress
It has been two weeks since I started my weight loss journey. I started at 266 lbs and now at 253lbs. Even though it's still water weight I am losing I am glad to see the numbers go down. Still maintaining my calorie intake of max 2080 calories by Lose it app. Sometimes I range from 1700-1900 or less depending on how my day went. Drinking lots of water aiming at 3L a day at least. Trying to keep a steady workout routine and have started skipping again. It feels easier for me than cardio.
Also took a picture today. Not sure what I was expecting. I feel sad talking about myself this way but I still look rounded and heavy. I don't hate myself but I do feel very sad for me. I know I won't see any change for some time but I don't know. It's just a reminder of how much more weight I still have to lose. Can't wait to take a picture and have it look light and airy. Not full and heavy because of my size.
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Also took a picture today. Not sure what I was expecting. I feel sad talking about myself this way but I still look rounded and heavy. I don't hate myself but I do feel very sad for me. I know I won't see any change for some time but I don't know. It's just a reminder of how much more weight I still have to lose. Can't wait to take a picture and have it look light and airy. Not full and heavy because of my size.
2023.06.04 20:09 BoomRoasted1200 Please help! I have A netgear router with 600/600 aTT&t fiber but suddenly I cant get speeds anywhere near that on any device even lan
Hi all!
I'm in need of mega help. I cannot for the life of me how this happened or how to fix. I used to have zero issue with getting full 600/600 on any device. Wired or wireless. I also ran a speedtest in the netgear software and I got 600/600 just now.
Speedtest on my wired desktop gives me anywhere in the range 300/(60-200), on my wifi laptop 120/80
Unraid server over lan is 80/80
What the hell is going on? This is something new and I'm about to lose my mind because I can't figure it out.
Thanks! BoomRoasted!
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I'm in need of mega help. I cannot for the life of me how this happened or how to fix. I used to have zero issue with getting full 600/600 on any device. Wired or wireless. I also ran a speedtest in the netgear software and I got 600/600 just now.
Speedtest on my wired desktop gives me anywhere in the range 300/(60-200), on my wifi laptop 120/80
Unraid server over lan is 80/80
What the hell is going on? This is something new and I'm about to lose my mind because I can't figure it out.
Thanks! BoomRoasted!
2023.06.04 20:09 luv_you_such_much Women with armpit hair treated unfairly?
In our society, there's this thing where people think it's weird or not normal for girls to have armpit hair, but it's totally fine for guys. It's like this double standard that makes you wonder why girls are expected to remove their armpit hair while guys don't have to do anything about it.
It's not fair at all. Girls shouldn't feel like they have to change their bodies to fit some beauty standard that doesn't even make sense. It's all because of what we see in movies, TV, and magazines, where they always show girls with no hair under their arms as the "normal" thing.
But here's the thing: it's not a natural or biological thing. It's just something society made up and keeps pushing on us. We need to question it and stand up for what's right. Let's celebrate our differences and let everyone do what they want with their own bodies.
We should promote body positivity and self-acceptance. We need to challenge these beauty standards and create a more inclusive environment. Everyone should have the freedom to be themselves and make their own choices about how they want to look.
So, in the end, we need to break this double standard and all the other expectations that society puts on girls. Let's talk about it, support each other, and create a world where everyone's choices are respected and celebrated.
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It's not fair at all. Girls shouldn't feel like they have to change their bodies to fit some beauty standard that doesn't even make sense. It's all because of what we see in movies, TV, and magazines, where they always show girls with no hair under their arms as the "normal" thing.
But here's the thing: it's not a natural or biological thing. It's just something society made up and keeps pushing on us. We need to question it and stand up for what's right. Let's celebrate our differences and let everyone do what they want with their own bodies.
We should promote body positivity and self-acceptance. We need to challenge these beauty standards and create a more inclusive environment. Everyone should have the freedom to be themselves and make their own choices about how they want to look.
So, in the end, we need to break this double standard and all the other expectations that society puts on girls. Let's talk about it, support each other, and create a world where everyone's choices are respected and celebrated.
2023.06.04 20:09 WhatsYourCreditScore I (M27) think that my girlfriend (F25) of two years may be emotionally abusing me?
I have been dating my girlfriend for two years and throughout it, she has had a very short temper and consistently gets frustrated with me.
She has a history of being cheated on and At the start of our relationship, she would accuse me of being interested in other women or looking at them. She would question and get mad at any interaction I had with female coworkers or my friends girlfriends. It is very rare she gets along with my friends girlfriends.
Nowadays, she gets very frustrated when we have to come to a decision together or compromise. If we are planning a trip, deciding on what we should do for a weekend, or deciding how to make a big purchase, she gets very frustrated and raises her voice at me if I am not doing exactly what/how she wants. She is very impatient.
When we are with friends or family members she is a completely different person. She is patient and caring and funny and loving and they all LOVE her. It is hard to talk to my family about our fights because they love her so much and can’t see her doing some of the things she does to me.
I am torn because I do love the good parts of her. She is funny, smart, caring and driven and would be a great mother. When we are clicking and doing well it is the best feeling in the world. However, the anxiety of not knowing when/how she will get upset is taking a toll on me. She committed to going to therapy to make changes because I have cried so many times to explain to her how shitty she can make me feel.
I am not sure what to do with the next steps. Can anyone give me advice on if this is emotional abuse or if I should be patient and understanding of her history?
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She has a history of being cheated on and At the start of our relationship, she would accuse me of being interested in other women or looking at them. She would question and get mad at any interaction I had with female coworkers or my friends girlfriends. It is very rare she gets along with my friends girlfriends.
Nowadays, she gets very frustrated when we have to come to a decision together or compromise. If we are planning a trip, deciding on what we should do for a weekend, or deciding how to make a big purchase, she gets very frustrated and raises her voice at me if I am not doing exactly what/how she wants. She is very impatient.
When we are with friends or family members she is a completely different person. She is patient and caring and funny and loving and they all LOVE her. It is hard to talk to my family about our fights because they love her so much and can’t see her doing some of the things she does to me.
I am torn because I do love the good parts of her. She is funny, smart, caring and driven and would be a great mother. When we are clicking and doing well it is the best feeling in the world. However, the anxiety of not knowing when/how she will get upset is taking a toll on me. She committed to going to therapy to make changes because I have cried so many times to explain to her how shitty she can make me feel.
I am not sure what to do with the next steps. Can anyone give me advice on if this is emotional abuse or if I should be patient and understanding of her history?
2023.06.04 20:08 springroiis My (24F) boyfriend (24M) has a gambling addiction and I don’t know how to help him.
I’ve seen a lot of posts like this on here already so right out the gate, I’m not going to leave. Suggesting I break up with him is not going to help me at all.
So my boyfriend has a gambling problem. His biggest problem (I think) is poker. We live together, been together for three years, have cats together, and are happy.
He recently won a jackpot worth like $70,000 which was great besides the fact that he lied to me about going to the casino that day. One of the first things he told me though is that he’s banning himself from the casino (He’s also done it before, back in university when he lost a lot of money, but reinstated himself about a year ago).
I found out later (doesn’t matter how) that he had actually be lying to me for months about how often he was going to the casino and back room poker, as well as how much debt he had actually accumulated (just under $15,000). I was heartbroken. I confronted him about it. I told him he needs to stop gambling, and made him turn his location on his phone so he can’t lie to me anymore. He said that’s why it’s a good thing he’s banning himself from the casino but I still voiced a concern about these poker rooms that he goes to. He wants to keep going though because he enjoys it. I thought turning his location would make him going, but now he just tells me everyday that he wants to go play poker and it turns into a fight.
We talked about him setting aside a certain amount of money to go with each month that he can’t exceed, but I’m still unsure about how productive this will be. I want him to take a complete hiatus for a couple months at least, and he doesn’t agree.
I told him I want him to get help so he can have a better relationship with gambling if he wants to keep going, he refuses. I told him he needs to tell his parents (who he was borrowing money from to pay rent, of which I was unaware) and he refuses. He doesn’t want me to tell my friends or family because he’s embarrassed, which I understand. However that means that I’m one of the only people who know, besides his friends that aren’t helping him any. I’m by myself in this.
I don’t know how to help him. I don’t want to tell him what he can and can’t do. I don’t want to mother him. I’ll also add that my relationship with gambling is negative. Online poker was one of the reasons my mom ended up leaving my dad, so it’s never been my thing, and honestly find the situation triggering.
He’s said that things are different now because since he has money, he won’t be desperate to win it back. But I don’t think anything has changed except for his debt magically disappearing.
Any advice is really really appreciated, thanks everyone.
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So my boyfriend has a gambling problem. His biggest problem (I think) is poker. We live together, been together for three years, have cats together, and are happy.
He recently won a jackpot worth like $70,000 which was great besides the fact that he lied to me about going to the casino that day. One of the first things he told me though is that he’s banning himself from the casino (He’s also done it before, back in university when he lost a lot of money, but reinstated himself about a year ago).
I found out later (doesn’t matter how) that he had actually be lying to me for months about how often he was going to the casino and back room poker, as well as how much debt he had actually accumulated (just under $15,000). I was heartbroken. I confronted him about it. I told him he needs to stop gambling, and made him turn his location on his phone so he can’t lie to me anymore. He said that’s why it’s a good thing he’s banning himself from the casino but I still voiced a concern about these poker rooms that he goes to. He wants to keep going though because he enjoys it. I thought turning his location would make him going, but now he just tells me everyday that he wants to go play poker and it turns into a fight.
We talked about him setting aside a certain amount of money to go with each month that he can’t exceed, but I’m still unsure about how productive this will be. I want him to take a complete hiatus for a couple months at least, and he doesn’t agree.
I told him I want him to get help so he can have a better relationship with gambling if he wants to keep going, he refuses. I told him he needs to tell his parents (who he was borrowing money from to pay rent, of which I was unaware) and he refuses. He doesn’t want me to tell my friends or family because he’s embarrassed, which I understand. However that means that I’m one of the only people who know, besides his friends that aren’t helping him any. I’m by myself in this.
I don’t know how to help him. I don’t want to tell him what he can and can’t do. I don’t want to mother him. I’ll also add that my relationship with gambling is negative. Online poker was one of the reasons my mom ended up leaving my dad, so it’s never been my thing, and honestly find the situation triggering.
He’s said that things are different now because since he has money, he won’t be desperate to win it back. But I don’t think anything has changed except for his debt magically disappearing.
Any advice is really really appreciated, thanks everyone.
2023.06.04 20:08 Down444 Girl Said She Like Hood Niggas
I’m messing with this girl. She be asking me to be her roommate and shit. So I been staying with her for about 4 days. Why idk. After that she told me why don’t I act like a hood nigga. She said I be acting too white cuz I be so respectful. I never told her I use to act like a hood nigga but I changed that years ago because of how ignorant it was. IDK what to say.
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2023.06.04 20:08 Down444 Girl Said She Like Hood Niggas
I’m messing with this girl. She be asking me to be her roommate and shit. So I been staying with her for about 4 days. Why idk. After that she told me why don’t I act like a hood nigga. She said I be acting too white cuz I be so respectful. I never told her I use to act like a hood nigga but I changed that years ago because of how ignorant it was. IDK what to say.
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