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Hey guys never played any dark souls and didn't want to search Google cause I'll get spoiled i resently bought elden rings Now the problem is HOW THE F**K DO I GET PASSED THE STARTING PLACE it's like this big guy just keeps killing me and if i sneak passed him there's a camp with was too many soldiers to take at once I heard you need to be patient with these games but what the heck i don't even know where to go Can anyone point me in the right direction without spoiling anything And any tips would be appreciated ☺️

I was addicted to smoking tobacco and weed, and at one point I was hooked to coke, I never reached such a state of devastation, but from experience I can sort of understand what this people are feeling, to a certain extent. This is basically Hell. These people are in a mental turmoil and chaos, emotional, physical and mental torture. Slaves of the drugs. They spend all their days probably stealing and finding ways to make money, out of recycling junk etc, just to buy drugs from a dealer, that is part of a hierarchy of narcos. They're the resource of the drug lords, they steal, recycle trash and all of that to make them rich. The world moves in really weird ways. You see them destroyed, skinny, homeless, but they make the druglords rich, its really ironical, the source of their brief happiness are the drugs.
It's so absurd how this arises in the universe, this movement of particles/energy/matter, giving rise to this which we call "homeless drugaddict humans". This is 100% result of capitalistic culture, I am not against or in favor of capitalism, idc really, Im not a socialist nor capitalist, I like science, I like physics, chemistry, etc, and to analyze life from that perspective, im not into ideologies, but that which people refer to as capitalism makes of everything a commodity, nature is a commodity, you look at an amazing landscape and if you look at it from the modern capitalistic perspective you just see resources, wood, stone, water to sell bottled, gold, granite for kitchen counters, etc. We're disconnected from something deeper, something that is more meaningful. This is why I like certain ancient philosophies, like Taoism, that teach to be empty of desire, because the more you use external things for pleasure, the more dependent on them you become, the more "needy" and "poor", if you need drugs, alcohol etc, you're a slave, but if your satisfied with nothing, just breathing air, and, closing your eyes, and relaxing, meditating, being comfortable in your own skin, snug, feeling warm and compelte, looking at the skies, drinking fresh water, going for a nice walk in nature, and then returning home, and just moving your body, I do Qi Gong for example, it is meditation in movement, you make repetitive movemnts and imagine that you are moving your energy, and connecting and exchanging energy with the cosmos, letting the old stagnant used energy go to the ground htrough your feet, and the ground recycles this energy, and pure clean energy descends from the sky into the top of your head, and you move this energy, etc, look up "Qi Gong" in youtube, you'll find a wealth of info, its really pleasant.
The idea is letting go of things, in the Tao Te Ching it says "In the persuit of learning everyday something is acquired, in the persuit of Tao everyday something is dropped, less and less is done until you reach non action", Non action is pure flow, you flow in whatever you do, like writing this text for example, just letting the words come out of the top of my mind and into the keyboard. I hope people can start to change, and take the easy path, the effortless path of life, of not needing anything, obviously its better to teach it to kids and make them understand drugaddiction through other means, like depriving them from food, say, when they're like 15, that they can fast for like 2 days without any threat to health, if they fast for 2 days they will feel a similar pain to drug withdrawal but with food, also can be done with water, and then they take the wter and the food and quench their thirst. THen you tell them that that pain they felt, is experienced by drug users but 1000x more, and the worse part is that when you finally eat food or drink water, its good for you, your body receives it and it is good for your body, and you are satisfied and then you can go many hours without food again and water, and the food and water did good on your body, left oyu feeling better, nourished and hydrated. The difference of drugs is that when you do it, it destroys you, and eventually wht happens is that, after the high is gone, you feel a hell, you feel the discomfort you felt when hungry, but 1000x worse, its worse than the pain of burning sensation, when your hand is burnt with fire, or a red hot stove, and then they need the drug just to feel normal, and when it wears out they are in that hell again, and its a vicious circle, without escape, or seemingly without escape. It destroys you so much that you dont have power of will anymore, so its harder and harder to quit. Some drugaddicts voluntarily get locked up, so that they dont take drugs anymore, and when they are locked they go through a WORSE HELL, they want to get out and do drugs at all costs, they regret locking themselves up, they feel physical agony and sensations that are beyond gruelling, they feel sensations that make them want to kill themselves, some do kill themselves, its so horrible they want to stop living, they dont enjoy life like people who dont consume, a person who doesnt do drugs can enjoy life, be tranquil, go his days without caring much, they go to the gym, feel great afterwards, take a shower get on some dry clean clothes, and feel very snug in their own skin, very comfortable/refreshed and like a million bucks, but the drugaddict is in hell constantly, cant enjoy the simple things of life, they need the drug. Hell indeed.
Now go and enjoy the simple things in life, and if you consume a drug, tobacco or whatever, know that I have quit, know that many people quit, know that you can go back to normal, know that you can find happiness and be content with the simple things again, free at last, take a deep breath of air, purify yourself, let your body heal over time, be in contact with nature, do exercise, sweat, drink good water, eat veggeis, fruits, etc, HEAL!

Some unusual activity has been going on in this thread, and I wasn't sure if I was just "out of the loop" with regards to how this particular thread was being handled by the mods & community.
1) Typically a thread will receive 20 comments or so in 12 hours. This one received A THOUSAND. Within a day, it received two thousand. Was the thread brigaded? What am I missing here?
2) When I visit this subreddit, the rules are immediately visible on the sidebar, with Rule #1 being "Post title must be a current, unbiased, and coherent question". The post title referred to a movement as a "crusade", which is far from unbiased. The mods are usually pretty good about removing leading thread titles, so what am I missing here?
3) All of the top answers were variations of the exact same response, with MASSIVE upvotes that aren't typical of this sub. And when I say "variations of the exact same response", I mean it's like a chatbot was asked to retype the same viewpoint using the same outline, no less. Seeing so many top responses begin with a historical disscussion of the Republican Party before talking about present day allegations against them, along with ignoring any current news related to the topic (IE bud light, target, etc) raises eyebrows. If so many responses look like chatbot resubmission forms, then what am I missing here?
4) The mods are completely asleep on Rule #4 in that thread. To a comical degree. If not, what context am I missing here?
Basically I don't understand the circumstances that allowed that thread to exist in it's current form. I feel "out of the loop", and I am wondering if the entire thread wasn't a coordinated effort to karma-farm by a few people and their bot scripts.

Hello! So I'm set on going to Kamakura for 1 day from Shinjuku.
I plan to leave Shinjuku at 7:30AM, and am expecting to arrive in Kamakura Station at 9AM? I guess from there I'm just expecting Komachi Dori at 12NN-1 or 1:30PM, then leave at 4PM to avoid the traffic jam (unless nightlife here is good?). I considered Enoshima but I feel like there's too many to unpack in Kamakura alone. I also saw there are hiking trails, but maybe I prefer just the ones you can easily walk nearby so the day won't be too tiring.
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Here are the temples I saw from research:

• Kita-Kamakura - Engakuji, Tokeiji, Jochiji, Meigetsuin!, Kenchoji
• Kamakura - Tsurugaoka!, Hokokuji!, Jufukuji*, Myohonji, Ankokuronji*, Zeniarai!, Sasuke Inari*
• Hase - Kotokuin*, Hase!

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The ones with "!" are the ones I hear are must sees, while the "*" are those I often see suggested. I understand I can't visit all in 1 day if I want to take time with each one. Need help narrowing down the highlights and also the most convenient (next to each other). And do I go to Kita in the morning, then Hase after lunch, etc?
Lastly, Kotokuin seems to be the most popular, but I just don't seem to be intrigued with how it looks? Is it a must, or skippable?
Thanks!

Folks, after hearing a senior with legit concerns about their future upon graduating without a solid plan...has got me wondering just how helpful these Career Center Counselors really are or not.
They know not all students get those fancy high paying summer internships. They know many students are new to the realm of longterm planning in many ways. And yet each appointment is either a resume editing session. My favorite are the mock interviews...they just look up and read off a list of common questions. Who knows if they are even reading back recommended responses from Duck Duck Go articles or some crap.
Then they have all those info sessions but the problem with those info sessions is that the student clubs and organizations on campus host similar events with better Q&A's and more intimate meetings for participants to really get the info they are looking for without some counselor filtering all the stuff. The Career Center can keep its pccasional stingy boxes of pizza if my future is going to be milked by them.
Screw it...this just shows the power of each of ours....your individual initiative.
If they had all the answers then maybe high unemployment rates wouldn't be an issue among many people graduating this year into a recession.

I wasn't very excited for troodon even back when they first announced it, it always seemed like a very useless dinosaur that only a few people are gonna actually enjoy playing consistently and it's development time would've been much more useful and appreciated if it had gone towards dilo instead. With the embargo lifted however I can't help but feel that troodon actually has some massive potential to be one of the most fun playables and I must admit I am genuinely excited for it, albeit reluctantly because I can also see a glaring issue with it, namely players who are in it for the glory. Troodon is a fast growing throwaway dinosaur which means people will value their lives less and just throw themselves at prey willy-nilly to get as many bites in without thinking about teamwork.
So, if you plan on trying out troodon please, for the love of god, actually communicate with your pack and establish a pouncing order or some shit instead of all of you going in whenever and acting on your own for glory or some shit while doing jack in reality. I saw a video from Wyatt the Tenontosaurus where his teno was attacked by a sizable group of troodons and they were so uncoordinated they ended up dealing like, 16% damage over the span of ten or so minutes. I could genuinely feel the frustration of the few competent troodons when their teammates would ignore the venom stages and just go in whenever. I really wouldn't enjoy an experience like this and I assume most of y'all wouldn't either, so please, whenever 6.5 drops don't act solely on your own when hunting with troodon. Communicate with the others, establish an order, maybe we could even come up with a new meta for it where it is expected of you to call before going in or "solo" troodons get kicked out of the group and killed by the other members for not respecting the order or some shit.
Apologies for the rant. I really want troodon to be actually fun to play, especially with how everyone (including myself) seems to be unconvinced by it at the very least. I'll try my best to be a competent and useful teammate whenever I play it and I hope at least the majority of the playerbase will, too. Cheers.

Firstly sorry for my English not bein my first language.
I have always hated myself and for the way i was in my childhood, i was a miserable child, bad at studies, bullied by friends, beaten by teachers and parents, i looked ugly so i just hate my school life and i kept saying to my friends and family what a looser i was, because I’ve been doing fine now, i am married to childhood crush who did not like me back then in school because i was extremely dumb however loves me and takes care of me a-lot now, i have a sustainable job pays me well, i am managing house hold really well, i know to carry myself very well, i am really proud of my self today, but always hated the fact that what a looser i was and how good i am now in life.
Now i have told so much about this to people feel that they also started hating my past self, even my husband and school friends cracks on how i was as a child in school i never felt bad because I always agreed but today it hit me very hard suddenly that it wasn’t my fault for how i was, i had a-lot of problems, my parent fought every night and was beaten many times, they did not look after me at all, my lost my father at young age and had gone through alot and struggled so there was situations made me like this and now i feel wish I could meet my self and apologies to her for hating her

So I had this idea because I love playing scratched mirror myers, but I only get one add-on every 4 or 5 levels of the bloodweb. Meaning it's costing me upwards of 100k points each time just for one game. And yes, I know I could play other killers or even survivor to bank some points to spend on Mikey, but it made me think about how I have a bunch of the other add ons. Vanity mirror or tombstone piece or lock of hair. Especially lock of hair. I feel like it would make sense for the RNG to take into account how many of each add-on you have. For example: if you have 10 locks of hair, it lowers the chances of it appearing in the bloodweb by 10% or so. That way, you're more likely to get the add ons you actually use. Could do the same with map offerings or even just offerings in general. The more you have, the less likely they are to appear in the bloodweb. It definitely feels like the ones I want appear a lot less than they should. For example, I maybe get one midwich or the game offering every 10 levels, but I've gotten several offerings for eyrie of crows. It's ridiculous. I have more than 30 of those offerings now. And it's killswitched to boot, so even if I wanted to use them, I can't. What do you guys think about this idea?

So recently, I started to listen to the Alone series. This helped me to learn more about weezer’s unreleased discography and how many great works that they could’ve done. Therefore, I started to create a reimagined timeline of their discography and I would like to share it to you guys.
1993: Opposite sides of the kitchen(album)
Track list:
Side 1:

1. Lullabye for Wayne
   
2. Jamie
   
3. Lemonade
   
4. I Swear it’s True
   
5. Paperface
   

Side 2:

1. Don’t Worry Baby (Beach Boys cover)
   
2. The World Has Turned and Left Me Here
   
3. Chess
   
4. The World We Love So Much
   
5. Victory on the Hill
   
6. The Purification of Water
   

In this timeline, Weezer’s debut was not the Blue album, but instead Opposite Sides of the Kitchen (which is a combination of the names of the two demo tapes, though much of the songs in this album where not demoed in those tapes). Many of the songs are b-sides of the blue album but were written on or before 1993, so I included them here. I decided to not to include too many Blue songs, and therefore I only chose The World Has Turned and Left Me here to be included into this album, as I think it matches the albums vibe. Lastly, it is worth-mentioning that The Purification of Water sequences Victory on the Hill pretty well, which was a surprise.
1994: Weezer (Blue album)
Track list
Side 1:

1. My Name is Jonas
   
2. No One Else
   
3. Buddy Holly
   
4. Surf Wax America
   
5. Undone - The Sweater Song
   

Side 2

1. Mykel and Carli
   
2. Say it Ain’t So
   
3. Holiday
   
4. In the Garage
   
5. Only in Dreams
   

So there is not much change in the blue album, except replacing TWHTALME with Mykel and Carli and some place switches.
1996: Songs from the Black Hole
Track list:

1. Ooh
   
2. Blast Off!/ Who you Callin’ Bitch?
   
3. You Won’t Get with Me Tonight
   
4. Oh Jonas / Please Remember
   
5. Come to My Pod
   
6. You Gave Your Love to Me Softly
   
7. Tired of Sex - tracking rough
   
8. Superfriend
   
9. Longtime Sunshine (alone version)
   
10. Tragic Girl
    
11. Dude We’re Finally Landing
    
12. Getting Up and Leaving
    
13. Getchoo - tracking rough
    
14. No Other One
    
15. Devotion
    
16. Waiting On You
    
17. Why Bother?
    
18. I Just Threw Out the Love of My Dreams
    
19. Longtime Sunshine (Pinkerton deluxe version)
    

As some of the short tracks are not available on Spotify, I made this playlist as a combination of most of the proposed track listings. Also, I love both versions of Longtime Sunshine, so I added both of them into the playlist, with the alone version closing the first part of the story and the Pinkerton deluxe version closing the whole story.
1997: Pinkerton
Track list:
Side 1:

1. Susanne
   
2. El Scorcho
   
3. Across the Sea Piano Noodles
   
4. The Good Life
   
5. Wanda (You’re My Only Love)
   
6. Butterfly
   

Side 2:

1. Shelia Can Do It
   
2. Walt Disney
   
3. Pink Triangle
   
4. Falling for You
   
5. Across the Sea
   

I assume that Rivers still wrote the Pinkerton songs after he finished Black Hole, and therefore most of the Pinkerton are included here (except the ones that appeared in Blackhole). In addition, I added five songs. Piano Noodles acts as an intro into The Good Life, and also hints this playlist’s ending track. In real time, Susanne should be released back in 1995, but let’s just pretend it is recorded in this period. Wanda and Walt Disney are good songs, and therefore I included them. Lastly, I love Shelia can Do It, and as it was written around this period, I included it.
1998: After Blue (ep)
Track list:

1. Everyone
   
2. Trampoline
   
3. I’ll Think About You
   
4. Lover in the Snow
   
5. The Prettiest Girl in the Whole Wide World
   
6. Crazy One
   

Weezer tried to put together a forth album but they couldn’t, the result is this ep. The first two tracks keeps that punchy vibe from Pinkerton, then the other four tracks shows Weezer were getting back to their poppy-power pop roots. This ep shows how confusing this period were to Weezer.
After the ep, Weezer started a hiatus.
So what do you guys think of this recreation? Please let me know your thoughts on it :)

I am going to start business management with major in marketing english program at Odisee from September. Got some questions if you don't mind :

1. As I have a situation that I may not be able to attend all classes I'd like to know if it is possible to pass the exams without attending some courses?
   
2. How many percent of the program is online?
   
3. Are the topics boring or not?
   
4. Do you find the program easy to handle or difficult and heavy with many assignments?
   

Tbh I chose this program due to its easy materials that fits my situation, so I'd like to make sure about that before submiting my application.
Thanks guys!

Hi, folks!
Friendly(-ish) neighbourhood mod here.
First, for those who don’t know what APIs are, these are tools provided by a company—in this case, Reddit—that allow developers outside of Reddit Inc to plug into Reddit’s servers and get posts, comments, upvote/downvote data, notifications, and a ton more in a controlled manner.
Over the years, this has led to a thriving ecosystem of third-party apps, some of which you might currently be using, such as RiF, Sync, Apollo, Narwhal, Boost, etc, and even web plugins like RES.
In fact, for a long time, Reddit didn’t even have a good mobile app—it bought out an existing third-party app called Alien Blue (which at the time was one of the best), and turned that into what we know to be the official Reddit app today.
Access to the Reddit API was free, which in large part was why this ecosystem thrived in the first place. That is, until now: Reddit has announced its new API pricing tiers.
This in an of itself isn’t a bad thing; Reddit is a business, and API calls require server space to run, which in turn costs money.
Plus, imo, it’s fair to not want LLMs and other AI models have free access to the massive quantities of data on Reddit for free and profit off of it in their turn.
What is a bad thing, though, is how much Reddit is asking for it. Per Christian Selig (the developer of Apollo, the most popular third-party Reddit app on iOS), it’d cost him [over $20 million a year]([https://www.reddit.com/apolloapp/comments/13ws4w3/had_a_call_with_reddit_to_discuss_pricing_bad/) to access Reddit’s API, moving forward.
This essentially makes third-party apps borderline impossible to monetise, and will destroy the freeware ecosystem built around Reddit, like RES, and several useful subreddit bots. This also means old.Reddit.com, which I’m sure many of you use and also leans on Reddit’s API, is one step closer to being killed.
Lastly, Reddit’s inbuilt moderation tools are garbage, and a pain in the ass to navigate through. I use Apollo to streamline a lot of the modding in MKIndia, which will no longer be possible with the much less capable official Reddit app.
Here’s a pretty detailed comment on a number of other reasons why third-party apps are objectively less user-hostile and better suited for browsing Reddit, than the Reddit app itself..
Which brings me to this MKIndia: on June 12th and 13th, this subreddit will be going dark. It won’t be accessible to newcomers, and existing subscribers won’t be able to post or comment anything new.
This is part of a broader effort across subreddits to hopefully get Reddit to recognise why this is a meatheaded, poorly thought-out and community-hostile move.
Also, for obvious reasons, this is something that will last for two days; anything further would be disrespectful to the users who get value out of this subreddit, third-party apps or not.
Personally, though, if there’s no indication of Reddit lowering its rates or making exceptions for approved third-party apps, I will be stepping down as moderator after finding a suitable replacement, and will be staying off Reddit outright. I’ve got no intention to contribute to Reddit’s adbucks and be a cog in the machine that helps it reach an IPO.
If you’ve got any relevant questions, feel free to ask away! I’d be happy to answer them.

I don't say this as a bad thing. I've played Zelda for many years. I played BotW and thought that it was such an amazing experience. Heck, I was even considering it one of my best games of all time. TotK almost makes BotW look like a demo, that is how good it is. The game literally makes me tear up to think about it (perhaps that's why it's called Tears of the Kingdom). I feel like this game has almost done everything I can think of within the scheme of what they are doing. Whether it's to do something in a new world like Majora's Mask with a new storyline and a new sort of building a legacy, a futuristic Zelda(LOL, I'm aware that this sounds crazy)... I mean heck I don't know the answer. I just know that I feel like they have mastered what they are doing and it just has raised the bar to a point where it's impossible to actually accomplish, so they really need to change the scheme. They have to keep things from TotK in whatever they do, particularly the open world, but they have to change and do something transformative to the concept of Zelda IMO. I mean I wouldn't mind another game just like this, I don't think anyone would, but if Zelda wants to continue being groundbreaking it's going to have to change something at its core.

i thought the limit was 100 (you had to purchase different wardrobes in your catalog) but i just counted how many clothes i have and it’s close to 150.

Me NB27 and spouse NB25 disagree on covid boundaries and I feel it is a significant hinderance to my life.
Spouse has different acceptable risk with covid.
Me (NB27) and my spouse (NB25) have recently come to a disagreement around acceptable covid boundaries.
Background: My spouse has disabilities and is therefore at much greater risk for long covid. We do not disagree on this. We also agree that covid and long covid is a big deal. However I recently have wanted to reduce our boundaries on acceptable risk.
Our current boundaries are Mask around anyone outside of our house unless they covid test negative beforehand. We don’t make exceptions and do not go out to eat or movies or anything else.
I wear my N95 at work and eat lunch in my car. I find wearing a mask to be cumbersome and prevent me from forming connections and communicating as effectively. I also no longer swim as the pools rarely have only one or two other people at lap swim hours. I do not feel comfortable at social events such as board game groups masked as I have limited communication abilities so I do not attend.
They do not work due to their disability and occasionally (2-4x a month) meet up for a masked walk or hangout with friends.
Recently we sat down and looked at all the resources for what covid risks are and with the same facts come to wildly different conclusions. We have discussed the facts and I don’t believe that we fundamentally disagree there.
I would like to stop wearing my mask at work. Be able to go to dinner or a movie. Hang out at a board game group unmasked without asking everyone (many who I haven’t met before) to covid test beforehand. Or hang out with my family without testing first.
They are only okay with expanding exposure to include my direct family without masking.
We are at a disagreement on what is okay. They have stated that the exposure levels they are okay with are a boundary and I can choose to respect it or not but if I do not we need to discuss our future together. Also that I must represent the boundary to my friends and family as my choice and not a restriction put on my them.
I don’t know how to proceed. On one hand I truly care about my spouse and don’t want to do any things that make them feel unsafe. But on the other hand I really want to be able to socialize more and don’t feel I can do so effectively with a mask on.
Is this a resonance boundary? I don’t feel that just my family is a good compromise but it is all that we can agree on.
Thank you.

I honestly hate seeing all these news outlets and people blaming Pitbulls and deeming them as monsters. It honestly kills me that I have to keep my pittie at home when going to dog friendly place s just because I know people will freak out when they see a 130 pound pitbull bouncing around grinning with his teeth out not knowing he just wants to lick their face off. And I’ve been in way too many arguments explaining how aggressive pitbull mishaps are a product of the owner and not the dog. Careless owners are the reasons for these attacks and stereotypes and I think it’s very important that we all try out best to break them. Love y’all.

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I’m not going back anymore even if I wanted to because I had called her yesterday and asked if the break up was really definite because I was tired of the mind games she was playing with me and I bet she didn’t notice. I felt like the false hope that she kept putting out was driving me crazy. My emotions felt so bottled in all this time not being able to express myself around her snd the painful moments she did to me. She making making it more difficult and I was trying to talk to her calmly on the phone trying to tell her how much I had deeply loved and cared for her and did so much for her. She would basically accuse me of blaming it on her even though she never took the blame for anything and never accepted the truth for what it was and not even an apology. She was so cold and still was then hung up the phone on me. She blocked me right away but before she could block me I sent her this and she read it. “ If you have tried I would have truly seen it. If you would have been there for me at my lowest and when I needed you I would have seen it. If you would have truly loved me you wouldn’t hold back your love for me saying it and in actions the many times you did. You would have not thrown me out of your house every single time I wanted to fix something with you. You would truly engaged in the things I shown you and were important to me. Lastly you would have given me the security needed. No one who cares about someone should be walking on egg shells all the time if all they wanted was love and security. I know I want farther than you and loved you deeply because I cared deeply and had always been there for you. You manipulated my heart and you tore it. You got what you wanted for now. One day you’ll realize how much I did for you and sacrificed. You hurt me, my family, and my friends and I don’t ever want to see you again in my life especially how you took advantage of me for your own gain.” I felt so bad and remorseful for sending that but I feel all the emotional damage she had caused me and continued to do was so much I felt like I was going insane. She truly played with my heart and I feel it’s her loss completely for doing that. I remember when I saw the GoId moments before in her but I feel that was covered up by her true colors :( I guess that’s why I also feel so remorseful because I’m only seeing those good moments when in reality she did more bad to me than good. I just got so frustrated with her how terrible she treated me and mostly just swept it under the carpet blindly and pretended things were still normal 😭😭 I do hope I find some one better in the future who would treat me way better than she treated me. I feel I saved my future self further pain from her I couldn’t imagine accepting being friends with her, seeing her with another guy when I had treated her so well and did everything for her. As well as living with her and marrying her if we were still in the relationship together. Days later I felt so bad sending that message, because of my heart never wanting to hurt the girl i loved so much and always caring and loving her so deeply. The insanity of my emotions couldn't handle the emotional damage she had caused me in the relationship and where i wasn't able to stand up for my self. I waited a few days later giving her some space and i also was trying to see how i could reach her because I was blocked on everything. So my brother allowed me to send this message using his phone:
I want to say I'm deeply sorry, and I feel terrible to you the person I love and called my special person for these two good years. I reacted very immaturely the other day when we talked. I think I was so emotionally clouded that I couldn't think straight. I know you probably don't want to forgive me or talk to me again. I understand that. In truth I never want to burn the bridge I had with you. Even though I know we can't be lovers anymore. You know me where sometimes I over think things and do dumb things based in my emotions, something I know I need to work on. My deepest regret though is losing you who I loved so deeply. I want to love you as a friend and person that I cherished with all those amazing memories despite our challenges that made us split. I hope when you see this message you can unblock me and text or call me back. I just would like to have our numbers open so we can check on each other from time to time. I love you and care for so deeply, appreciate you, you were my first girlfriend who supported me in tough times and were there, I know we had challenging times and I accept we have to move away from each other romantically. I just would like to stay connected with you in some way.
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A few days later she responds with this :
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"Im really upset with what you said to me. I understand you have big emotions, but it doesn’t mean I will let myself be talked that way. Only for you to reflect and say sorry days later (Even though i genuinely went out of my way to say sorry) it’s just not fair. I’m going to keep you blocked for awhile because that’s the only way I can keep my boundary. I don’t know what the future holds, but I wish you nothing but the best."
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i'm sorry for the long passage. I am guessing in the near future she's going to try and comeback eventually? and if she doesn't I hope you can see how much I deeply loved her and fought for her to show her how much i cared for her and our relationship despite the trauma she caused on me and how one sided she made it. Maybe its the best she let me go, could have it been a favor for me?
If anyone could help me sort this out? I feel so sad especially how much I cared for her, she was my first girlfriend.
Thoughts?

I am a cisgender straight female, dating a cisgender male for a year now. The first time we had sex was for over 20 minutes, and he lost his erection. Many times after that went the same — either he lost his erection, or in other instances, he was fully erect but could not cum. There have been more times, on top of that, where I have tried to initiate sex but could not get him hard to begin with. I will dress up sexy just for him, but no matter what I’m wearing, he does not seem interested in having sex with me. We see each other often, more than three times a week, yet we will go 2-3 weeks without having any sex. There were a few times where he began losing his erection, and then asked to do anal midway. Through anal, he was able to sustain his erection and finished. Our sexual chemistry has definitely felt off, and it is not a new thing. Most recently, we were watching a movie with a homosexual romance. There were many sex scenes, and I noticed my boyfriend had actually gotten hard during these scenes and was visibly trying to hide it.
Is there a possibility that my partner could be gay or bisexual? Am I being wildly insecure or ignorant? I know that this could be communicated to him, but I wanted to ask to see if this is even a valid concern or if I’m being totally insensitive. And if it is a possibility, how can I ensure my partner feels supported and safe and not attacked or judged?
Thanks!

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I’m not going back anymore even if I wanted to because I had called her yesterday and asked if the break up was really definite because I was tired of the mind games she was playing with me and I bet she didn’t notice. I felt like the false hope that she kept putting out was driving me crazy. My emotions felt so bottled in all this time not being able to express myself around her snd the painful moments she did to me. She making making it more difficult and I was trying to talk to her calmly on the phone trying to tell her how much I had deeply loved and cared for her and did so much for her. She would basically accuse me of blaming it on her even though she never took the blame for anything and never accepted the truth for what it was and not even an apology. She was so cold and still was then hung up the phone on me. She blocked me right away but before she could block me I sent her this and she read it. “ If you have tried I would have truly seen it. If you would have been there for me at my lowest and when I needed you I would have seen it. If you would have truly loved me you wouldn’t hold back your love for me saying it and in actions the many times you did. You would have not thrown me out of your house every single time I wanted to fix something with you. You would truly engaged in the things I shown you and were important to me. Lastly you would have given me the security needed. No one who cares about someone should be walking on egg shells all the time if all they wanted was love and security. I know I want farther than you and loved you deeply because I cared deeply and had always been there for you. You manipulated my heart and you tore it. You got what you wanted for now. One day you’ll realize how much I did for you and sacrificed. You hurt me, my family, and my friends and I don’t ever want to see you again in my life especially how you took advantage of me for your own gain.” I felt so bad and remorseful for sending that but I feel all the emotional damage she had caused me and continued to do was so much I felt like I was going insane. She truly played with my heart and I feel it’s her loss completely for doing that. I remember when I saw the GoId moments before in her but I feel that was covered up by her true colors :( I guess that’s why I also feel so remorseful because I’m only seeing those good moments when in reality she did more bad to me than good. I just got so frustrated with her how terrible she treated me and mostly just swept it under the carpet blindly and pretended things were still normal 😭😭 I do hope I find some one better in the future who would treat me way better than she treated me. I feel I saved my future self further pain from her I couldn’t imagine accepting being friends with her, seeing her with another guy when I had treated her so well and did everything for her. As well as living with her and marrying her if we were still in the relationship together. Days later I felt so bad sending that message, because of my heart never wanting to hurt the girl i loved so much and always caring and loving her so deeply. The insanity of my emotions couldn't handle the emotional damage she had caused me in the relationship and where i wasn't able to stand up for my self. I waited a few days later giving her some space and i also was trying to see how i could reach her because I was blocked on everything. So my brother allowed me to send this message using his phone:
I want to say I'm deeply sorry, and I feel terrible to you the person I love and called my special person for these two good years. I reacted very immaturely the other day when we talked. I think I was so emotionally clouded that I couldn't think straight. I know you probably don't want to forgive me or talk to me again. I understand that. In truth I never want to burn the bridge I had with you. Even though I know we can't be lovers anymore. You know me where sometimes I over think things and do dumb things based in my emotions, something I know I need to work on. My deepest regret though is losing you who I loved so deeply. I want to love you as a friend and person that I cherished with all those amazing memories despite our challenges that made us split. I hope when you see this message you can unblock me and text or call me back. I just would like to have our numbers open so we can check on each other from time to time. I love you and care for so deeply, appreciate you, you were my first girlfriend who supported me in tough times and were there, I know we had challenging times and I accept we have to move away from each other romantically. I just would like to stay connected with you in some way.
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A few days later she responds with this :
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"Im really upset with what you said to me. I understand you have big emotions, but it doesn’t mean I will let myself be talked that way. Only for you to reflect and say sorry days later (Even though i genuinely went out of my way to say sorry) it’s just not fair. I’m going to keep you blocked for awhile because that’s the only way I can keep my boundary. I don’t know what the future holds, but I wish you nothing but the best."
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i'm sorry for the long passage. I am guessing in the near future she's going to try and comeback eventually? and if she doesn't I hope you can see how much I deeply loved her and fought for her to show her how much i cared for her and our relationship despite the trauma she caused on me and how one sided she made it. Maybe its the best she let me go, could have it been a favor for me?
If anyone could help me sort this out? I feel so sad especially how much I cared for her, she was my first girlfriend.
Thoughts?

The day she broke up with my i hate so much angry i didn’t know what to do a couple days later i contacted her she wanted to stay in contact and wanted to talk that day she said she loved me and cared about me and she need a hug from me we talk for 2 extra days since then she says she doesn’t want contact anymore I’m confused cs she ask me to stay in contact I leave even if I was fighting it I left with so much anger I started to talk or look for other girls and on this part I regret a lot I’m hurt and start talking to this girl some how we dated for like 12hrs broke up with because I still loved my ex I called and texted my ex that day she was furious with me and I understand for telling her that I was already trying to move on she wanted nothing to do with me and it’s confusing but it makes sense why she was mad I understand that I did something absolutely stupid and there’s excuse for it but none of this would have ever happened if you didn’t dump me left me like I meant nothing to you I beg her to give me a chance she refused a day ago I was still in contact with that girl I “dated” because I was afraid she might do something as she had serious mental issues and I was lonely something happened were the girl want kill herself I didn’t know what to do so called her for advice as she’a the only person I trust she helped me and she seemed really relaxed and and I ended up cutting contact we started talking and she kept bringing up this girl oh she’s cute im glad for you but in a way of anger she blow up on me I cried my eyes I never felt so hurt by her she said we have to permanently stop talking and i love this girl I would do anything to have her back I made so many mistakes but she is someone I can’t lose she even sounded happy when we talk I hope she finds something deep in her heart and comes back to me

I work as a dating coach, and one of the biggest challenges I see clients experience is that they get rejected by a couple of women, and then convince themselves they're losers who will never be loved by anyone.
As a result, I've put together some stats to help men realise that not only is rejection an inevitable part of the dating experience, but that you should actually expect more women to say 'no' than 'yes'...

Rejection and the average man

If an average man asked 100 women out, how many would you expect to say yes?
In this example, our average man is 35-years-old, and average in looks, earnings, social skills and confidence.
We can estimate the answer by removing the sum of those who’ll say no.

Unavailable women:

Roughly 50% of adult women in western countries identify as unavailable:
- Already dating someone else.
- Abstinent for religious reasons.
- Engaged or married.
While some unavailable women may still agree to a date, let’s keep it simple and remove them all:
100 women
- 50%
= 50 women remaining

Sexually incompatible women

Approximately 6% of women have no sexual interest in men:
50
- 6%
= 47 women remaining

Physically incompatible women

• Given our test subject is average in looks, let’s assume 50% of women consider him attractive enough to date.
• He may also be attracted to 50% of women, but it’s unlikely to be the same 50% who are attracted to him.
• Let’s estimate that 30% of the women he approaches share mutual attraction.

47 women
- 70%
= roughly 14 women remaining

Emotionally unavailable women

Timing is everything. Not every woman our average man approaches will be in the right emotional headspace to accept a date. Some will be:

• In a bad mood, and uninterested in being propositioned by a stranger.
• Taking a break from dating right now.
• Getting over a recent, nasty breakup.

Let’s estimate 25% of women are emotionally unavailable.
14 women
- 25%
= roughly 10 women
This means the average man’s success rate will likely be around 10%.
While these stats may seem a little harsh... "you're telling me that if I'm average looking, I should expect 90% of women to say no???" they're also a helpful reminder when you're beating yourself up for being turned down.
Keep your chins up fellas, and keep getting out there.
If you have any questions about this post, or dating and rejection in general, post it as a comment and I'll respond ASAP.

How many people really follow the laws regarding keeping the drone in sight and not flying over people? Isn't flying a ways away like 2/3 of the fun of the drone? And obviously I would t harass anyone with the drone but is flying past someone 120 meters in the air really that bad? I just got a drone and am considering returning it